<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8548974</id><updated>2011-04-21T23:56:36.032-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Camella Mathew - Me n My life</title><subtitle type='html'>This is me and my thoughts around the buggest chapter called "LIFE". This blog is meant to keep track of it. To read my Stories and Thoughts come here. Do feed in your feedback around them.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://camellamathew.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8548974/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://camellamathew.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>camella</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15298337205210279451</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8548974.post-109662905681858813</id><published>2004-10-01T16:10:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2004-10-01T06:13:58.180-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The art of loneliness</title><content type='html'>Some people feel prepectually lonely while others are never to be found alone. Why? What differiantiates them? Why are some people alone most of the time? Why makes a person spend their time alone? What makes them spend with people?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are various reasons. Intellectually disabled people tend to spend all their time alone. This is because they are unable to relate with people, unable to interact with them, not due to a social phobia but simply due to mental inability.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But what about normal people? An average person tends to have various mood swings. Their tendency to do something depends on what they are thinking at that particular moment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whew!! this blog is crappy! Am going round and round the bush without a single coherent statement making any sense. Still am posting it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8548974-109662905681858813?l=camellamathew.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://camellamathew.blogspot.com/feeds/109662905681858813/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8548974&amp;postID=109662905681858813' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8548974/posts/default/109662905681858813'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8548974/posts/default/109662905681858813'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://camellamathew.blogspot.com/2004/10/art-of-loneliness_01.html' title='The art of loneliness'/><author><name>camella</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15298337205210279451</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8548974.post-109662940075710104</id><published>2004-10-01T06:14:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2004-10-01T06:16:40.756-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What makes a good leader?</title><content type='html'>A leader could basically be treated in the following ways by his people:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;loved &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;feared &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;hated &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;treated in comtempt&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;A leader should never be hated and looked upon in contempt by his people. Hatred and contempt are the worse things that can happen to a ruler, hatred because nothing else is needed to motivate opposition, even assassination and contempt because then few will fear to act in opposition. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Machiavelli, in The Prince claims that it is better by a ruler to be feared then loved by his people, but this is only for the reason that in times of crisis, it is important that the ruler is obeyed. According to him, a ruler who is loved but not feared may not be obeyed in need, which could lead to disaster. Thus a ruler need not be loved to rule well, but he must be feared to the extent that he will be obeyed.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;A ruler who is both feared and hated may be successful but the foundations of success will be unsound. Stalin died unchallenged in power while alive, but three years after his death he was denounced by Khrushchev, a member of the pultibiro in the 1930s and in charge of the communist party, for his crimes (the "secret" speech of 1956).&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8548974-109662940075710104?l=camellamathew.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://camellamathew.blogspot.com/feeds/109662940075710104/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8548974&amp;postID=109662940075710104' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8548974/posts/default/109662940075710104'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8548974/posts/default/109662940075710104'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://camellamathew.blogspot.com/2004/10/what-makes-good-leader.html' title='What makes a good leader?'/><author><name>camella</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/15298337205210279451</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
